Hypocrite~!!!

Does hypocrite is bad?
well, first of all. lets define what is hypocrite.

From Dictionary.com:
Hypocrite -
1) a person who pretends to have virtues, moral or religious beliefs, principles, etc., that he or she does not actually possess, esp. a person whose actions belie stated beliefs.

2) a person who feigns some desirable or publicly approved attitude, esp. one whose private life, opinions, or statements belie his or her public statements.

so basically, it is a person who act differently in a different situation and facing different people. Well, technically I always see that hypocrite is one of the attitude that all human being has, including ourselves. We tend to do things differently at different situation and yes, we are tend to to speak or act differently whenever we are facing/talking with different people.

We act differently when we are with our parent/family,
We act differently when we are with our wife/girlfriend,
We act differently when we are with our friends,
We act differently when we are with our boss/superior,
We act differently when we are with our teacher/lecturer,
We act differently when we are with our enemy/competitor,
...............even more We act differently when we are alone !!!

it defines who we are, at the eyes of others. Of course the basis is that we try to look good for others, not to say that we are bad inside. It is just we are nice people and nice people tend to do good things for others, but the degree of 'nice' that we do for others now that defines who we are from others' eyes. Sure you guys always heard,

"eh manade la, dier baik la"
"isk korang nih, tak caya la aku dier macam tuh, dier kan baik jer"
"kenapa dier baik ngan ko erk, ngan aku besa jerk"

The third dialog suggest that the guy/gal not being bad to other person but the degree of 'nice' he/she shows for one is slightly higher than the other. But by the end of the day, we know who we are and as long as you are not hurting anyone it should be ok.

p/s: aihhh men are complicated.............(women also k) oh ya just for note, LYING IS NOT FORM OF HYPOCRITE. Lying and hypocrite is different altogether.